It's not magic so why believe it is?

There's no magic to this. No magic, no magic, no magic. This conversation I recorded took place two weekends ago. It's from a guy I'll call Stephen who is actually good with women. I've seen it with my own two eyes. No selling, no bootcamp, no product just a guy who is good with women. This is part of the conversation:

"This ain't no magic. I didn't know of this PUA community until 2007. Before that I was hooking up with girls left and right. Anyone can if they talk to enough women and try your best not to creep them out. But when I found out about all of this community taking place I was stunned. It was like damn there are dudes with thousands of post talking about gaming women on these forums and shit. And then when I found out about products, bootcamps etc I was like oh hell no!

$500 DVD sets, $2000 bootcamps! Then I started seeing advertising on Craigslist and such. I don't know, it was crazy. And suddenly I had found that this explosion was caused by this book the Game so I read it and I started looking some of these guys up and found out that a great percentage of this is a facade. It really is. You don't need to stay in a community. It's like staying in rehab forever. Anyway I started inquiring about some of these companies and started following some of these guys, finding out where their bootcamps were being held in the clubs and such and I would walk away shaking my head because I didn't see anything that impressed me; it was seriously some guys saying go talk to those girls, okay you leaning too much, okay go talk to those two girls. You did good but you need to slow down your speech. Thanks that'll be $3000!

Man I've been doing that stuff since 1994 when I was old enough to go out to bars! I didn't do anything special when I pulled that cheerleader for the Chargers! It was just confidence, humor and a direct 'look I want to go out with you' statement of intent. She could've easily said no and no amount of PUA voodoo would've changed that. And the funny thing about that night was that this unattractive redhead shot me down 30 minutes before that. I wanted to hook up with her because she had huge boobs but looks wise she was about a 5! LOL seriously and she told me to go away! And then that cheerleader for the Chargers was sitting there with her friend drinking margaritas and I sat down at their table and asked them if I could join them and they ended up being fun and goofy and I hook up with one of them only to find out she's a cheerleader for San Diego! I think as long as you have a sense of humor and don't overdo it, and you have confidence, and a willingness to put yourself on the line without any bullshit then you can get laid at least twice a month if not more. It's not magic, it really isn't.