You want to get good?

I know everyone who is in the community wants to get good. They want to see what things are like on the other side of the fence. I was the same way. I was reading tons and writing down techniques and things to say and keeping them in a 4 1/2 by 3 1/4 inch notebook that fit in my back pocket and I took it with me everywhere. Before the days of boot camps it was trial and error. I went out 3 nights a week due to my job. To me going out 7 nights meant you either worked a schedule that allowed you to and you lived in a happening city where something went on all the time (NY, LA) or you were obsessed or whatever but 3 nights was good enough for me. One thing that occurred to me and made me realize the game is tough but not is tough is some make it out to be is that a big part of this game is just having the balls to talk to women. Yes that's it. Have a pair of balls to go out and talk to women and have something interesting to say when you do. If you can do that you'll beat out most of the guys out there. It also helps to look and smell nice. Why and how do you think that normal looking guy met that beautiful girl and trust me there's always a few in the club? Yep, he talked to her, he wasn't pushy or afraid and she actually went out with him and dug him. That's it! No DHV story, no social proof, no neg just straight up conversation while being relaxed, and not sweating over her. Trust me I talked to plenty of girls who said just that: "oh he just came up and talked to me and he was funny and cool"
So the next time you think about forking over $2500 for a bootcamp or spending 10 hours watching the next mindblowing 'no one is teaching this shit' $750 product try going out and having conversations with women over and over and asking them to go out with you sometimes and leave the bullshit "every AFC does that, I did that and it didn't work" excuses home and get your ass out there.