To most of you who stop by to read my blogs, whether you like it or not, agree with my opinions or not, understand that I made this to shed light on the reality of the community, game and so forth.
I never really liked the idea of being a pickup artist personally because I think it has negative connotations, I mean what other identity would get you such a creepy reaction, resistance or a 'get serious' look from girls if you told them thats exactly what you do. But let's face it we are pickup artist, seducers and whatever else you call it. It's a fun lifestyle and brings out your best social skills and that's what others on the outside don't understand. Yet like I said in my blog about the community being a mess there is a dark side to this shit. You become arrogant, judgmental, sometimes annoying, and other negative things. When girls don't want to talk to you and you stand there and still try to run your game it's flat out rude and makes you look like a dumb ass. That's why I rarely ever hang with pua's.
It's funny when I read someone talking about ditching their friends or how their friends are AFC and they want to hang with pua's only, I begin to shake my head and wonder if we're raising men of character or sleazeballs. I dropped a few newbie community guys because they wouldn't shut up about 'game' and flat out gave me the creeps. I'd rather hang with guys and talk about women, sports, cars, computers etc than sets, routines, HB9 in the corner, gurus and other shit all night. You seriously want to be a good wing? Then don't weird your friend out.
The community needs to focus less on rules, business, fame and other bs and focus more on just having fun for the sake of it and learning to be a man of character, wit, charm and an understanding of humanity in a real sense and not some guys who think they know what its all about because they listened to product x, ran routine y, or even because they just all of a sudden feel natural and confident. Pffffffft! Spare me the psuedo-male ego. When you stop sweating over 9's and 10's and learn to talk and treat people based on the content of their character then you start to get it.
Thursday, July 10, 2008
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